by dropdeadgothic » Tue Jun 13, 2006 9:59 am
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Originally posted by Peter Venkman
"Being a goth is all about being self-centered, morbid and depressed. That's why there are so many teenage goths. You're expected to be morbid and self-centered, so that's why so many teenagers take to the genre/lifestyle."
"That said, if you're over twenty and a goth, then you have emotional issues"
The single greatest quality of the people I was acquainted with in the "new wave"(then "alternative" scene back in the day, was their genuine love and concern for one another. Kids trying to carve out an identity for themselves, gay or straight, depended on their friends for mutual acceptance and understanding. There were a lot of hugs that went around back then, guy or girl.
To say something like "Being a goth is all about being self-centered, morbid and depressed," shows an alarming failure to fully educate oneself and to make an honest effort to try to understand other lifestyles and beliefs. Blanket characterizations and stereotypes serve no ones best interest.
I've known a lot of people that thought being "goth" was about their choice of music, fashion, and their "look". The media promotes this idea. Goth is more about how you respond to the world. I have always responded to the darker aspect of art, music, literature, and life. I find contentment in silence, and shadow. Death intrigues me as the ultimate inevitability, and how other people past and present have responded to it, is also of interest. I'm not obsessed about these things, but there is a fusion of dark and light in my personality. I'm at peace with that.
If I could buy my reasoning,
I would pay to lose