by shovelbum » Wed Apr 18, 2007 12:12 pm
[quote][i]Originally posted by ghosty[/i]
Yeah, I'm aware of communities like that. Luckliy it's a small percentage. Unluckily for you..you're stuck there. I lived in the south myself for many years and never encountered that sort of thing. The Christian community I grew up in was like something out of John Hughes movie with maybe a dash of "Footloose" thrown in there. It sounds to me like what's happening by you is some sort of "social conditioning" run amuck with relgion as an excuse for it. I'd be moving soon too.
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Yep, you've pretty much hit the nail on the head. I live in Charleston. It's one of the oldest cities in the nation and the blue bloods who live downtown don't want anything to change. Not changing keeps control in their hands.
It's very status oriented here. You're status is judged on what car you drive, what school your kids go to, what country club you belong to, etc. We moved here because we're beach bums and guess what- that is frowned upon here! My husband is considered weird because he doesn't golf, I am considered weird because I refuse plastic surgery and BMW's, and my kids are considered weird because they ride the bus. (They are the only white kids on a full bus!) Even riding the public school bus is considered a social status issue. A lot of our local white acquaintances think we're nuts for letting the kids ride the bus "with all those blacks!", but so far my kids have had no problems at all and have made a few more friends. Weird.
Religion is really tied into the whole debate. People vote here based on their religion, not on what the county/state needs. Two schools in the same district, 6 miles apart, can be drastically different: one looks like a private school with state of the art everything and champion sports teams; the other looks like it belongs in the ghetto and they only have 5 computers in the whole school and no sports teams because they can't afford it.
It's hard because the people here have lived here for sooo many generations they really believe that this is just how it is and there's no sense fighting it because they think this is all that it will ever be. If you suggest change they think you're revolutionary, radical . . .
I don't mind religion. All I ask is that as I respect yours, please respect mine (or my lack thereof). However, this place is probably about 40 years behind the rest of the nation and they just don't tolerate anything different than themselves.
It's a shame, because the weather is beautiful and the sailing is grand.
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